The world is getting crowded with Dominatrixes these days, as even the briefest search on the Internet will attest to. However, there are few as preDominant as the eminent Ms Dana Kane. Over the course of January, I have been busy working on an art project for her, and in response, she has graciously agreed to offer up some insights on her life of a Disciplinarian.
Have you been a lifelong spanko, or did you only discover the joys of butt-smacking as an adult?
Could you tell us a bit about the circumstances that lead you to becoming a professional disciplinarian? Is it something you always wanted to do?
Do any of your non-spanko friends know what you do when they are not around....?
You certainly seem to genuinely enjoy what you do. What is the most satisfying aspect of the punishment experience for you? ( is it the feeling of empowerment? the sense of naughty kink? the honesty and candidness of your clients exposing their private fantasies? Knowing that you are the vehicle for them to explore their own psyches? Or maybe it's just the way their buttocks turn redder and redder...?)
I know it's cheating to say 'all of the above', but that's really the only true answer. It's everything - the intimacy, the psychological aspects, certainly empathy, and also a large dose of what I've termed Gleeful Sadism.
Have those sensibilities evolved over time? If so, how?
Let's say a new client has approached you. He's never been to a disciplinarian before, but wants you to indoctrinate him. Assuming he has been properly polite and punctual, what is he in for?
Do you have a favorite role-play scenario?
For someone who was pretty good at disrupting other students during class, I have soft spot for teacher/student scenes in which I get the chance to be the overbearing instructor.
What are your favorite implements to wield, and why?
Have you ever met your match- that is, someone you just knew you couldn't make regret their desire to be punished no matter what you did?
Any takers out there?
Thanks for letting me participate!