Saturday, 9 May 2015

Scolding & Spanking

I see a lot of spanking videos where the lady heats up her man's behind in stony deadpan silence, and  I find it a little frustrating. Getting a spanking over her knee is humiliating enough, but add a heated lecture into the mix, and now you really have a truly awe-inspiring encounter. A spankee is likely to remember the ear-burning he received long after the sting of the brush has faded. And a really good spanking should ultimately be about her communicating her message, and making sure he gets it.
Some guys, however, just don't seem to understand the spirit of the occasion without a little verbal reminder -

YOU THINK I CAN'T FEEL YOU GETTING HARD ON MY LAP?? YOU BETTER GET YOUR HEAD STRAIGHT, MISTER - THIS ISN'T FUN AND GAMES! YOU'RE BEING PUNISHED!!

15 comments:

  1. Love the energy of the pic and her hand in his hair to get him nice and close! I agree, of course a spanking is the best way to make a grown man feel like a naughty boy, but the second best way is certainly to give him a good matronly scolding before and during to make sure he knows what a naughty naughty boy he is and how he deserves every slap on his blistered bottom! Especially if there are witnesses or he's being punished for something embarassing like wanking

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  2. I don't get the scolding now, but maybe I should encourage my wife to interject some while spanking me.

    Baxter

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  3. Another great illustration from Red! Thank you. This theme is a delicious one, and I think that although a scolding before, during and after a good bottom blistering is especially effective, the scolding itself and on its own, if intense enough and long enough, should serve as an effective domestic discipline tool. Especially of course, if delivered in front of friends or relatives or sales clerks. A lecture with the implied "wait till I get you home" will leave most men thoroughly chastised and humbled.

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  4. Very evocative, even though I don't get spanked as an adult (and don't wish to and, for that matter, wouldn't permit it) I can imagine this kind of scene happening when I was younger. The part about getting hard on her lap is quite titillating...

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  5. canadianspankee11 May 2015 at 01:56

    Loved the picture, sometimes it is hard to remember why one is over the knee of a lady if not reminded on occasion. Of course scoldings in advance make a guy very aware of what is about to happen soon but a good reminder while the paddle rests on one's butt cheeks also serves the purpose

    Canadaspankee

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  6. Scolding come prior to and after for me. I must stand, hands on head as she pulls my pants and underpants down, scolding me like a little boy. Once over her lap, it is with the hand at first and once I show it is hurting, the hairbrush is applied and once she is satisfied she has me stand before her, rubbing and crying and reminds me that naughty little boys will be soundly spanked in the household and best be a good little boy. Once when her mother was visiting the spanking was in process, her mother just makes herself at home and watched, when I was standing, all on display my wife excused us and took me to the bathroom, I had to pee and walking back, still bare from the waist down I took my position facing the wall.

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  7. Being scolded--even though in my case some of it is roleplay--certainly adds to the effectiveness of a solid bare-assed walloping, especially if I'm required to occasionally respond to rhetorical questions with "Yes, ma'am" or "No, ma'am" between my gasps, yelps and wails.

    I'm in agreement concerning F/M spanking videos in which the feminine disciplinarian says almost nothing while she's lambasting her victim's behind. I wouldn't expect the lady to keep up a constant line of chatter, since after all her energy should primarily be focused on forcefully swinging her paddle/brush/strap/cane/etc., but occasional remarks reflecting both her irritation with the chastised guy and her satisfaction at how effectively he's being disciplined, along with a few pointed (if largely rhetorical) queries which he'd better respond to properly, those certainly add a great deal to the spanking experience.

    Even if I'm basically getting my naked buttcheeks reddened because I'm gratified by it and my darling wife indulges me, I prefer the 'play-acting' that I've richly earned my serious corporal correction from a strict spankmistress--spousal scolding/lecturing certainly contributes to that impression... --C.K.

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  8. I am not spanked often but when it happens its accompanied by lots of scolding. I'm ordered to go to her office to await her arrival. She goes upstairs and gets out the "spanking chair" and let's me cool my heels waiting for her. This always creates a lot of anxiety and I also get excited knowing what's about to take place. When she gets there she stands in front of me and starts the scolding"you've left the garbage can curbside again,you fixing dinner doesn't mean pizza every week,I expect my panties to be hand washed and not put in the washing machine." By now I'm squirming and staring at my feet. She soon orders me to look her in the eye as she finishes the scolding. I'm ordered to remove my clothing except for my underwear and fold them neatly and placed on the love seat there. She then takes me by the hand and walks me up the stairs to the bedroom. She seats herself on the oak ladder back chair and orders me to stand beside. She looks up at me and asks if I know what's coming next. My face reddens as I reply " I'm going to get a spanking." Not just a spanking but I'm going to take down your pants and paddle your bare bottom. Oh,yes Mamam! Down my pants come I'm taken across her knee and my bottom upper thighs and inner thighs are thoroughly hand spanked. If I beg for her to stop too soon she continues on with her hairbrush and the wooden paddle. I can't help myself as I squirm and wiggle while on her lap. I
    "If your behavior doesn't quickly improve I'm going to have my Mother come over and watch your next spanking. I don't think the actresses in the movies know how to effectively scold!

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  9. A spanking is just a beating if you are not focused on the reason for your punishment. Scolding before and during allows you to accept the required discipline. Scolding after adds to shame for your misbehavior.

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  10. now this is very intimate and very sexy, yet very classic spanking .... i like how they both enjoy it....you can read it from her face...and his erection :)
    well done RR

    vrrattko

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  11. On the other extreme there was a company (I won't name it out of politeness) that put out videos where the women were really gabby and stopped to 'scold' (sounded more like nagging) every three slaps or so. I got the feeling neither the men nor the women were really into what they were doing.

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  12. I have to agree the older posts here about the whole spanking experience being sterile without an active verbal component. Years ago my wife got a booklet and video from the Disciplinary Wives Club and it was entirely about scolding during discipline. She quickly became an expert at it, which was a really good thing.

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  13. My wife likes to give me a good telling off before she actually spanks and canes my bare bottom ,often in front of one of her friends or her mother.! I must admit I hate having a spanking with a bathbrush -it really does hurt ,as many spankees will be well aware! The cane does leave long lasting red ridges which she makes me show to some of her relations or friends ,depite my protests, if they call to see us ! I find a day or so after the punishments,sitting down can be painful! KN

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  14. If you're looking for that "maternal" effect, there definitely needs to be scolding before and during, if not after. My fantasy is the woman who scolds and then describes in some detail what's going to happen, perhaps even giving choices, such as over her knees or on the pillow. The spanking consists of a continued scolding punctuated by spanks until she's satisfied that I'm sorry, at which time she says "Now, I'm going to paddle you so that you'll remember!" and finishes with a largely silent volley of spanks or brush-strokes. After is for either "Now get in that corner and stay there until i tell you otherwise!" or "I'm sorry I had to do that, baby, now come snuggle."

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